Au Pair or Nanny: What's the Difference?
Choosing a live-in caregiver for your child
Both nannies and au pairs provide at-home child care, and sometimes people use the terms “au pair” and “nanny” interchangeably. However, there are important differences between the two roles.
A nanny is strictly a domestic employee. An au pair is a participant in a cultural exchange program. While you “hire” a nanny, you “host” an au pair, and welcome her or him as a member of your extended family. Au pairs not only provide quality child care, they offer your family insight into foreign cultures, customs, and languages. Children receive an enriching cultural experience that isn’t always available from a nanny.
Key differences between nannies and au pairs
Nannies:
- Are employees of the family
- Usually adhere to a set schedule
- May live with the family or live out
- Negotiate their compensation with you
- May be from the U.S. or another country
- Generally charge more to care for more children
- May or may not be legal to work in the U.S.
Au Pairs:
- Are part of the extended family
- Provide live-in child care
- Stay with the family for at least a year
- Are foreign-nationals between 18 and 26
- Are a standard rate to care for one or more children
- Are legal to work in the U.S.
- Are young, enthusiastic, and excited about the au pair experience
Learn more about the requirements to be an au pair



